Staying true to who you really are can sometimes be very difficult, especially living in the society we have now. Nowadays so many people want you to act a certain way, look a certain way, talk a certain way and all kinds of things. Everyone says that you need to look like a model, be skinny, have perfect skin, perfect eyebrows, long hair and just have the perfect body. When in reality the number of people who have all of those “standards” are pretty low.
So many of us these days are so self-conscious, all because of what some stupid person said at one point. We aren’t wearing what we wish, we aren’t saying what we want too, it’s almost like we’re not allowed to do this because it makes us an “outcast” or “different”. Its like we’re not even allowed to believe in certain things because it’s just “weird”.
In reality if we’re being “different” and “weird” all it means is that we’re not becoming part of the black and white. When you are the exact same as everyone else around you, its kind of boring because you don’t get to try anything new or do anything because it’s not what everyone else is doing.
Wanting to meet everyone’s standards is never going to happen, I’m sorry to let you down but that’s just the truth. IF SOMEONE TELLS YOU, YOU NEED TO LOOK OR ACT A CERTAIN WAY, DON’T FEEL OBLIGATED TO DO IT!!! Set your own goals of what you want to look like, if you want to lose weight or get any cosmetic procedures, just make sure you’re doing them for yourself and not for anyone else! The only person you need to impress is yourself.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Do not believe what anyone tells you about yourself, because only you know what is true about who you are! No matter what body shape you have, no matter what skin type or tone you have, no matter what hair type or anything, God made you beautiful. Every single person on this planet was hand crafted and you are nothing less than amazing. No matter what you’re going through or what someone tells you, you are strong, you are brave, you are beautiful, you can get through anything, you are worth the whole world and more.
And remember, societal standards change all the time, and you are never alone, don’t listen to what people want you to be, because only you can decide who you become. You Are Beautiful. ❤